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Dating Tips: Attracting a "10

by: VinDiCarlo
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Are you interested in meeting, attracting and keeping a "10" kind of a woman? If yes, then you will find the letter very interesting.

But before anything else, let's go waaaay back...

Back in high school, I had a girl classmate that was so perfect.

She was intelligent, cool, and so beautiful that it was hard to look at her (and yet I couldn't stop my eyes looking)...

She was friendly to everyone and was one of the popular kids in school.

Occasionally we talked and as I look back I realize that we were flirting (I was so stupid to realize at that time).

I badly wanted to ask her to a senior prom but I chickened out at the last minute.

I realized after some few years that the girl had a crushed on me all the senior year.

I've talked to a lot of guys and this experience seems pretty common, there was this ONE SPECIAL GIRL who you crushed on from afar, or you missed an opportunity with her, or she broke your heart...

Ah, the elusive "10," the perfect girl that every guy wants but never seems to attain.

I have a lot to say about so-called "10's." In one sense they are another "breed" of woman, but at the same time, it's that kind of thinking that makes them so.

Understanding your own fascination with female perfection, and understanding the reality of extremely beautiful women will help you resolve this conundrum, and maybe help you find that "perfect girl" for yourself.

First of all, "10" is just a myth. No human being can be considered as perfect. You CANNOT say that a woman who looks prettier than the women is more "valuable".

A woman that turns you on and have a great chemistry with you is the only true "10" and is the one that's perfect for you.

Following this reasoning, the world is full of 10's, given you have the skills to meet a lot of women and create options for yourself.

One recipe for your failure is if you treat a woman differently than other women just because she is prettier than the others.

Why?

Because a lot of guys do that.

The girl knows what you are about and she sees you as a shallow guy.

But there definitely are certain women that seem on another "level" of beauty than the rest. These women get treated much differently than other women.

You need to understand this so that you will know how to treat these types of women.

Like I said, you shouldn't treat them "differently."

Let me explain it.

You shouldn't treat them BETTER than other women. But there are a couple things you need to know.

First, she don't like a guy that chases her for her looks alone.

A woman wants to be appreciated for her personality above anything else.

Now for your own sake I'm going to give you a heads up.

The so-called "10's" has two different types.

Low self-esteem and high self-esteem.

Low self esteem 10's are pretty common. They are used to being wanted for their looks, but they know that they didn't EARN that attention, so they have a guilt complex.

In fact, they are in complete dumbasses or most probably their lives have been coasted.

It may sound harsh but I call it like that.

These women take away their validation will make them flip out and do anything to get it back. They also respond to jerk-behavior.

Anything.

(As a side, these girls usually suck in bed and are total head cases when you get involved with them.)

On the other hand, the high self-esteem 10's women have had a taste of elite- they know early from the start that high levels of society were attainable to them, and they work hard to be successful, intelligent, and make the most of their lives.

These women know that they are just a little closer to a great life than everyone else, and so they are motivated to put in the extra effort.

HSE 10's usually have good attitudes, have a direction in life, are intelligent, and have lots of interests beyond being clubbing.

In fact, the most beautiful women I've dated didn't even go to the club. They like to spend their evenings reading, being with their families, or having a nice dinner with friends (or studying if they were in college).

And here's another interesting thing. These women are single for long periods of time while in-between boyfriends. Why?

Because they have high standards for themselves, and since most guys are either too intimidated to ask them out, or act too needy and pathetic around them, it's rare that they meet another man who is on their level.

But here's the good news. These women are the easiest to attract when you understand The Attraction Code.

Being the best man you can be and being a "male 10" is what you will get from these Attraction Code.

You'll notice an interesting thing when you start to embody the Attraction Code.

There is an Auto-Rejection Mechanism that I call where some women will try to protect themselves from being rejected by you, by rejecting YOU first. This is where you'll get odd responses from less attractive women - they will occasionally be rude to you because they know they're not on your level.

But you'll be amazed to see the responds of the most beautiful and attractive women that warm right up to you as soon as you approach them - whether on the street or in the bar - because they can see that you are on their "level."

The woman will thinks "finally, a guy who can hang with me; he's confident and treats me like a real person. And he's the only guy who's actually tried to talk to me today, instead of whistling from his car."

The Attraction Code is meant for these kinds of women. Of course you'll also enjoy plenty of "adventures" with all kinds of women, but ultimately this is about having the option of dating the hottest, highest quality women.

There are plenty of 10's out there waiting for you.

Don't spend another year missing something that you could've been enjoying right now.

Vin

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